Couldn't agree more.
Infact it's weird because my current partner (and hopefully lifetime partner) is absolutely beautiful and awesome in every way yet it all started because she wanted to go out with me, so I didn't have to do anything. I guess the best things comes to those who don't give a shit and wait.
Nice to hear man and yeah it's pretty unique to have a woman ask a man out
Anyway my advice to all men is this:
Under NO circumstance should a man get married unless you're ready to lose half of your shit and custody of your children, which is you are, then, well, I guess you can't say much.
Marriage not even ONCE. Thank God I don't live in a country with cohabiting laws either. Also I'm seeing a trend and the vast majoirty of men my age have also said that they will never marry which is a good thing. No man should be getting married until the laws change which heavily favour women.