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I used to not really like my own culture when I was younger and practically worshipped the West. Thankfully I saw the error of my ways pretty early on.
when you opened mtf and saw how western people look from the close

and i think asian people are loved in poland maybe unless they are vietnamese small illegal factory workers in the woods near warsaw

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Andreea's use of English and choice of wording fits her personality, if you were curious to know.
easy Simple?

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Easy?

I was about to say sophisticated but right now I'm having doubts about this.
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My Romanian is indeed rather sophisticated and very sarcastic, my English sadly not so much

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I see what you mean and I think it's admirable that you try to understand why they might be frustrated. I just think it's in poor taste to point out a person's race when one's insulting the said person though. It's like that Llodra incident when he called some fan Chinese - he probably didn't mean it in a racist manner, but why did he have to point out that she was Chinese? Was that meant to be an insult? Why couldn't he have said "you bitch"? I would've found that less offensive.
It's the most visible difference and the easiest way to discriminate so I think it comes from mental laziness more than anything else.

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You mean the Americans don't usually book their tennis courts in advance? I get stressed out when I can't book my courts at least 3 days before I'm due to play.
Many of them didn't know they could. There were 18 tennis courts and they probably thought some of them would be free. Asians would never make that assumption.They were also very cheerful when kicked out while the Asians would frown and glare for having been out-reserved.

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Does the government perpetuate this attitude of subservience?
Don't think they do it as any kind of policy but there are plenty of those in the government who are white worshipers.


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"Mass of confused people" definitely describes Singapore as well. At least India has a rich history and cultural tradition; our history began with a British guy discovering the island.
Interesting. I am completely ignorant as to your history. Can you summarize in brief?

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It is really fascinating. I noticed how American children are brought up with much more encouragement and accolade then Swiss kids.
Huge generalization of course but the earliest thing I noticed when I first came here was how comfortable the Americans seemed in their own skin and in their environment. I don't know much about Europeans though so I cannot compare.

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It kinda is, on the other hand, mods need some kind of instrument to get rid of people that just keep on breaking rules. If I was a mod i would just ban people because they annoy me over and over again and people would hate me because they would feel it is subjective, which would be true here we have at least some kind of objective system. It is really your own fault if you get permabanned, as there are enough warning signs along the way.
Don't think there is any need for a permaban. Ban people as many times as needed but keep the maximum limit to 6 months or so.

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I'd rather be told straight in the face that I suck at something than to be cuddled into a false sense of belief that I don't suck at it, so that when I grow up, I don't get a rude shock and have my sense of self-worth destroyed when I discover that I really suck at that something. I would like to be praised - constantly - for the things that I'm really good at too.
I prefer that parents not comment on the quality of work at all( or keep it very limited) and simply encourage the interest in a particular activity. If interest is sustained, there will eventually be efforts to improve. I say this because interest in a particular activity can randomly emerge at a later stage and telling kids they suck at something early on can later affect their ability to develop a newly formed interest.

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when you opened mtf and saw how western people look from the close

and i think asian people are loved in poland maybe unless they are vietnamese small illegal factory workers in the woods near warsaw
Btw, the two Polish girls I knew in grad school were quiet, shy, somewhat nerdy bespectacled girls. Needless to say, after I joined MTF you provided a counter perspective.

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poles who come to usa or canada are poor and originate from some shithole places, and have huge inferiority complex

all of the above doesn't refer to polish jews ofc. (well, even if they come from shithole places, they get education and make career )

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I like poles


you probably have told me that the Poles who come to Holland are also trashy. Yes they get into a van with 1250150 people, shitfaced from alcohol but I always enjoy meeting some Poles. They know to have a good time.


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poles who come to usa or canada are poor and originate from some shithole places, and have huge inferiority complex

all of the above doesn't refer to polish jews ofc. (well, even if they come from shithole places, they get education and make career )
Maybe that's why one of them dated an Indian guy.

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No construction or building repairs in Norway wouldn't be done without Poles. Like any immigrant group some are absolute shitheads and others fine, but that's no different to anywhere else where there are plenty of dickhead locals.

On Nadal bumping him on the changeover, Rosol said: "It's ok, he wanted to take my concentration; I knew he would try something".


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I definitely would have preferred Gaba winning as he needs the points much more, but Jan would have beaten him anyway. I expect Hajek to destroy Machado, like 6-1 6-2.
Machado wins 6-2 6-1
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Omg this is making me cry.

http://sg.news.yahoo.com/nus-law-pro...%E2%80%99.html

That's my school. How could they do this to my school? I was taught by this professor if the rumour I heard about his identity is right. This is so disgusting.

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I like poles


you probably have told me that the Poles who come to Holland are also trashy. Yes they get into a van with 1250150 people, shitfaced from alcohol but I always enjoy meeting some Poles. They know to have a good time.
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Maybe that's why one of them dated an Indian guy.
for some reason many polish women like guys from india don't ask me for which reason is that...
i mean, my experience with indian guys comes down to clay death and start da game
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No construction or building repairs in Norway wouldn't be done without Poles. Like any immigrant group some are absolute shitheads and others fine, but that's no different to anywhere else where there are plenty of dickhead locals.
well, norway is at least the country where half of our doctors and nurses work i guess

actually i was being unfair about poles in the states, there is a number of scientists having university contracts, even working for nasa, and the IT specialists (incl. my ex classmate working for google)

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Omg this is making me cry.

http://sg.news.yahoo.com/nus-law-pro...%E2%80%99.html

That's my school. How could they do this to my school? I was taught by this professor if the rumour I heard about his identity is right. This is so disgusting.
hear hear... our conservative trip had to strip?

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Stupid Greek athlete gets kicked off the Olympic side for making a racist tweet.

On Nadal bumping him on the changeover, Rosol said: "It's ok, he wanted to take my concentration; I knew he would try something".


Wilander on Dimitrov - "He has mind set on imitating Federer and yes it looks good. But he has no idea what to do on the court".

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Machado wins 6-2 6-1
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when you opened mtf and saw how western people look from the close

and i think asian people are loved in poland maybe unless they are vietnamese small illegal factory workers in the woods near warsaw
Well I know there will be one person who loves me when I go to Poland.

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Many of them didn't know they could. There were 18 tennis courts and they probably thought some of them would be free. Asians would never make that assumption.They were also very cheerful when kicked out while the Asians would frown and glare for having been out-reserved.
Sounds exactly like what I would do - never assume the courts are free and get all disgruntled when I'm kicked out.

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Don't think they do it as any kind of policy but there are plenty of those in the government who are white worshipers.
This kind of attitude might inform policies and influence the general perception of the public.

By the way, I read this article at work this morning: http://www.press.uchicago.edu/Misc/Chicago/143651.html

Very interesting read; I learned things about the Indian culture that I wasn't previously aware of. Do you know the novel by Maitreyi Devi?

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Interesting. I am completely ignorant as to your history. Can you summarize in brief?
Basically, this British guy called Sir Stamford Raffles discovered the island now known as Singapore in 1819. We were colonised until 1963 when we merged with what was then Malaya as a condition for independence from the Brits, then separated/were kicked out of the union in 1965 due to a host of conflicts with the Malayan leaders. We've been independent ever since. Ours is probably the least eventful independence story in Asia; no armed struggle, no deep-seated hatred for the Brits, and the only earth-shattering thing that happened in the process was Lee Kuan Yew crying when we were expelled from Malaysia.

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I prefer that parents not comment on the quality of work at all( or keep it very limited) and simply encourage the interest in a particular activity. If interest is sustained, there will eventually be efforts to improve. I say this because interest in a particular activity can randomly emerge at a later stage and telling kids they suck at something early on can later affect their ability to develop a newly formed interest.
That sounds reasonable.

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Btw, the two Polish girls I knew in grad school were quiet, shy, somewhat nerdy bespectacled girls. Needless to say, after I joined MTF you provided a counter perspective.
Nathii, you must be so proud.

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hear hear... our conservative trip had to strip?
Apparently that is in line with my hypocrisy, according to Clay Death.

CD is Indian?

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i mean, my experience with indian guys comes down to clay death and start da game
We can't take credit for Clay Death. He is an American. If you include Clay Death, you will have to include Bibberz as well.

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