You answered your own question when you said you went to the Bon Jovi site! I have been a Bon Jovi Fan for years. That is how I found out about Phil X--and I just got 3 of his CDs with the Drills! He and his first wife are divorced and he has remarried plus his wife is expecting a baby.
I was a huge Bon Jovi fan when they came out and up to maybe the late 90s, but didn't really follow them for the last 7 or 8 years. I didn't even know Phil already filled in on their tour a couple of years ago. I just googled his name for the first time in several years about 2 months ago. Sad to hear about the divorce as they made a nice couple, though they had a long run. How do you know so much about his personal life?
So funny that you would know about this somewhat obscure musician from Toronto (he's had a good career, working on many big name albums and tours, films, etc..., but he's not exactly famous) and that it'd be someone I'd gone to watch so long ago.
The world gets smaller online, eh?