Nice to hear man and yeah it's pretty unique to have a woman ask a man out
Anyway my advice to all men is this:
Under NO circumstance should a man get married unless you're ready to lose half of your shit and custody of your children, which is you are, then, well, I guess you can't say much.
Marriage not even ONCE. Thank God I don't live in a country with cohabiting laws either. Also I'm seeing a trend and the vast majoirty of men my age have also said that they will never marry which is a good thing. No man should be getting married until the laws change which heavily favour women.
Certainly as far as men go we did deal the short straw in life where issues of custody, abortion and so on are concerned. Fathers rights is a big issue all around the world.
But, could it be any different way? Would any other way work? Thats the question.
Some things in life just aren't fair, men get it easier in some ways, women in others. I think I did a whole thread about that actually.