Filo as much as I sympathize with the case made here, you do have a tendency towards the paranoid when it comes to people making comments in your posts. Just because they disagree with you, doesn't make them homophobes (or jackasses for that matter).
I deal with tons of homophobic abuse on a daily basis. Almost all the people who really hate on me, are also homophobic, and have made homophobic comments in the past. I just call it like I see it. I agree, not every instance of criticism of my posts is homophobia, but a lot of it is.
That doesn't mean there are a number of tools on this site who do seem to be homophobic btw. I just pity them.
I don't pity them. I find homophobes morally and emotionally abhorrent. They are awful human beings.