I don't want nor need to challenge myself, because I have what I need at my disposal. I have the card in my pocket to pull whenever I choose. And that's my face and my looks in general. My grandparents are disappointed in me, my aunt thinks I'm wasting my life away, you aren't the first person to say these things about me, by a long shot. But I'm living my life as I see fit, and that's what really matters. I don't need to live my life according to what others believe I should do or should be. It's not their position to tell me how to live. Life is all about having fun and doing what you want to do.
This reasoning I agree with 100 %.