Each story has 2 sides.
We don't know what really happened and it's not our business anyway.
It's the private-life of them and it's already a surprise that they could hide their problems for a few months before making it public now.
Ilham said that Stan is a loving father and saw his daughter very often.
It's unfortunate that both Stan and Ilham are not handling the announcement properly. It's much better to have a 3rd company (like a PR
or management company) to announce the separation and put a lid to it. No talking to the media from either party.
Locally, Steve Nash, a very famous basketball player here (and in the basketball community worldwide) announced he and his wife are divorcing less than a week after announcing his wife gave birth to their son
After the announcement, no buzzing or whatever in the media, no finger pointings, etc.