I wouldn't want cats like that either! I had a cat go to the bathroom on the bed ONCE, but he was a kitten and after I reprimanded him and put him in the litter box, he never did it again. I don't let my cats do things I don't like. I train them to respond to my voice and set rules for them.
that writer said her cats always pee pee on her bed, if i were her, i will kick this cat out, but she spoiled them, so she has to take the consequences
you are so wise